Woman’s boyfriend surprises her with Starbucks everyday at work, causing jealousy among the other women, claiming she’s ‘rubbing it in their faces’

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    r/AITAH⚫ 11 hr. ago Autistic_Tap_5622 Ive been sending my girlfriend Starbucks delivery every couple of days and it started to cause issues at her work.
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    I'm 28F and my girlfriend is 27 My girlfriend is extremely picky with her coffee, she hates hot coffee or coffee without a sh ton of milk. Both me and my girlfriend have separate finances.
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    Whenever my girlfriend texts me that her day is boring or stressful I will uber eats Starbucks to her work so she has a coffee and a cake pop. It's something I can afford to do and she absolutely loves whenever I surprise her at work with a sweet treat.
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    I've been doing it for the past couple of months with no issue.
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    A few days ago my girlfriend came home and told me she absolutely loves the Starbucks and doesn't want me to stop, but that some of the other women have started to kick up a fuss over it and from what my girlfriend was able to gather, the woman think my girlfriend is rubbing it in their face that she gets treated to
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    a nice drink every few days. It's started to cause some issues in the break room due to some of the woman being incredibly jealous.
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    I'm wondering if I stop for a while or continue doing it? EDIT: I will chat with my girlfriend when she gets home about if she feels comfortable still having her treats or if I should stop. Thanks for the help
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    peakpenguins •11h ago • I'm wondering if I stop for a while or continue doing it? Leave that up to your girlfriend. If you want to keep sending her coffees then it's up to her if she wants to deal with the
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    jealous office or not. NTA.
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    • angelgirlbella ⚫ 11h ago • Don't stop. These women are clearly jealous but I find it alarming that they feel the need to make your girlfriend feel bad about... if I was in there spot would I be jealous? Yeah probably. But you'd never ever catch me
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    making her feel bad! That's ridiculous. She's lucky to have such a sweet gf! Unless it's the higher ups giving her a hassle I don't see a reason to stop. Let them be ped off.
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    No_Winner1131 • 11h ago • Time to up the ante. Send flowers, chocolate covered strawberries, a singing telegram (maybe not). NTA Good people would be happy for her, you don't need to worry about the other kind of people.
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    C 11h ago Edited 11h ago this is a decision for your gf to make. it's weird to me that you would ask Reddit what would be best for your gf instead of asking her. I'm not trying to be mean I swear it just seems like the equivalent of typing "what does my gf want to eat for dinner" into google.
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    Remarkable-Ru... • 11h ago • Just keep making sure she wants you to do it, tell her to let you know if you need to cool it off. Sounds like she doesn't love her workplace so good on you for boosting her day!
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    Prior_Piano9940 8h ago • You might not like to hear this but... it's entirely possible your gf is oblivious to how much she may be bragging, which could be what is breeding resentment. You're never gonna get the truth from her if that's the case and
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    you're not gonna speak to her coworkers but I wouldn't assume anything of anyone involved. I say this because Starbucks delivery is such a nothing thing that it would be weird for a whole group of women to suddenly start getting jealous of a 10 dollar drink.
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    OkManufacturer... • 9h ago • Does she brag? Make a big deal about it?
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    Makira 7577 6h ago • NTA - I'm always amazed when people can't act like adults at work.
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    One caveat that isn't on you. If she works in a controlled access building, has to involve others to get the delivery person access or whatever or makes a big deal out of it, she could be the a hole if it's happening multiple times a week, but that's on her, not you.
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    dancin-weasel • 3h ago • Send her 24 roses and a cake. Amp this thing up!!!!!

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